Quadrant IV

In order to determine what kind of changes I wanted to make for 2008, it was necessary for me to do some serious soul searching as to the problems I thought my life was facing.  I had a look at some other people’s thoughts on this, sat down and looked at my life.

There were a number of things I identified that I wanted to change, including my health and fitness, however perhaps the biggest roadblock in my life at the moment is the balance between work and play.  While initially I thought this was a problem with work/life balance, I realised that it wasn’t as simple as that.

As I have a full time job, a part time job and am half-way through a Masters degree, the imbalance isn’t only caused by my ‘work’.  My full time job is, in fact, very contained and while I sometimes need to complete work after hours or check those emails during my holidays, it really isn’t the cause of the imbalance.

And it isn’t the part time job either.  That is extremely variable, but also quite flexible and has been less demanding over the past year.  The postgrad study is a different matter, but also still not solely responsible for the imbalance in my life.  I study one subject per semester and can generally find enough time to complete my required activities each week.

The problem for me was a combination of longish working hours, study and a number of personal habits and hobbies that were adding no value to my life but draining significant time.

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Just five days in and my bloglines and inbox are full of articles posted everywhere on things you can do to make your 2008 bigger, better, more productive, less productive, happier, gladder, more wonderful than last year.

I’ll update this post as time goes by, but here are a few that I’ve found interesting so far:

43folders – Death and Underachievement; a guide to happiness at work: amazing post by Ryan Norbauer on letting go and enjoying life

43folders – Re-evaluating your online commitments: cutting out those online apps and social networks that aren’t providing value to your life

43folders – Why are you reading all that news?: A wake up call for RSS addicts

Metafilter – Advice for clearing library clutter – some excellent advice in the comments that applies to clutter of all kinds and jump-started my house clearout

DIYPlanner’s 2008 Calendar Templates – excellent for those who live with paper rather than pixels

Lifehack.org – 14 tips for resolutions that stick in the new year

Lifehack.org – 20 questions to help you reflect the past year

Lifehack.org – 8 ways to achieve success in 2008

Lifehack.org – 10 questions to ask yourself to regain your work/life balance

The dawn of a new year always seems to be an ideal time for reflection and change.  New year’s resolutions abound and so many people are making promises to themselves, most of which they will never keep.

Personally, I like new year’s resolutions.  While I’m inclined to embark on a life-changing clearout of my responsibilities and projects at any time, having a clearly defined starting point just feels right.

I normally start my self-assessment in the week between Christmas and New Year.  It is a great time to start as I have indulged in the excesses of Christmas and am ready to make a change.  Not waiting until Jan 1 to plan also means I can be ready to start on the first day of the new year.

This year I’ve taken a slightly different approach to normal in that I’ve planned my planning a lot more carefully.  I’ve read a lot of articles and posts regarding New Year resolving and life-clearing and have identified a number of things I need to achieve before I can start on those all important resolutions.

I initially listed the major steps I need to achieve before I can make my resolutions, or even know what I wanted to resolve:

1. Ask some tough questions
2. Identify the need
3. Sort out what you are trying to achieve
4. Work out how you are going to get there
5. Describe the path to enlightenment
6. List the journey of 1000 steps
7. Make the hard decisions

So far I have handled numbers one and two.  Number 3 involves identifying the real purpose to my life, and while I have read a number of articles on how to do this, I’ve yet to really find the time and inner strength to do it. 

Just what happens if you find your life’s purpose, and it isn’t what you expected?  What happens if it conflicts with everything you’ve previously thought?